Tuesday, May 06, 2008

Put your money where your values are


I travelled to small town americana yesterday on an errand. The Twin Cities are a uniquely vibrant town where a 30 minute drive puts you smack in the middle of no where. Not quite so much "no where" as it was 150 years ago when fellows like Blakely settled in with their ox and families to conjure an existence from a rich but unforgiving land. Blakely must have been a decent fellow as eventually others settled by the Blakely place and now he is a town. I would like to be a town someday. Comfrey was a town as well, until the '98 tornado swept it off the map. Amazing how a force of nature can stop history in it's tracks. My few bucks and prayers go out to the citizens of Myanmar who certainly have a renewed respect for the forces of nature.

I chatted with a client yesterday about events unfolding in the world. We were breaking it down to our level; what can I do? He sells eco friendly cleaning supplies. I suggested he sell "put your money where your values are". I expect a residual check in the mail. I also proffered the idea that if every person in America ate only the calories they needed to sustain their life for one day, perhaps a week; no more then you need, no waste, a definite impact could be made. Consider your latest walk through a restaurant, I see a lot of waste on plates. Multiply that by 300 million. A lean america would conserve immensely. Fuel, health care, food costs, waste, my goodness add it all up. I don't suspect an obese nation will go lean for the sake of humanity anytime soon, but I can dream. The law of unintended consequences leads me to think I'm not a big fan of the new light bulbs. I can't eat native bred fish for the mercury concentration in the water. How about if I only use the lights I need, and turn them off when I leave the room? What if we all only used what we needed?

The law of unintended consequences hit closer to home Sunday afternoon. Tac was gone for the weekend and Chopper takes that as a license to whine and back talk. I'm not a big fan of back talk. More to the point, I'm not a big fan of kids disrespecting their elders. He went to his room. I went to mine for an afternoon recovery from my morning LSD run. Before I succumbed to that delicious sleep of fatigue, I told the Soapinator to free Chopper from his penance in ten minutes. An hour later I awoke, vaguely aware that a voice was missing from the murmur in the living room. Chopper must have fallen into a much needed nap. Good, except for the pile of paper airplanes accumulating at the bottom of the stairs. "mom, cin i com don now?" a dozen times. Perhaps he could have put a finer point on his question if he had landed a plane against the head of his forgetful sister. Chopper is our industrious one.

"Oh, I don't care".
Mom, you say that a lot lately. demanding an explanation. Well, there are questions that require a definitive no, such as, "Mom can I cut Soapinator's hair?" and some that earn an immediate "yes" Mom, do you want a backrub?" Then there are the ones I really want to say "no" to, but for lack of a moral or immediate threat to life or limb or school pictures, I have to relent and say yes. Such as, "mom, can we build a fort in the living room?" Knowing full well that in spite of well meaning promises to clean up after themselves, there will be an aftermath. The Tribe is afterall their own act of nature. Here is where my two interests collide. I don't want more work, but I also want them to play and create and explore. So, in counting the costs, my resignation generally falls with "oh, I don't care"

I had an awesome birthday, primarily because of all the phone calls, texts, comments and etc. Thanks friends and family!

Tac is back, tan and rejuvenated by his time away- huge thanks to Kahuna, Grayhound and Curly Sue for hanging with the Big guy!

9 comments:

Fe-lady said...

But you do care...I can tell! :-)
And waste...there is SO much if it in public schools. From food to paper to books and computers...I could go on and on. I am sure many businesses are the same way.
I can only teach my kids at school (and at home) that you DON'T play in the water when you wash your hands and some things go in trash and some things go in recycling..and if something is on the ground outside, we can pick it up and put it in it's proper place.

TriSherpa Di aka "Mrs Bigun" said...

I truly enjoy reading your osts. Thanks for the thoughts to ponder.
I am so glad to hear you had a nice birthday, you are loved.
;)

TriSherpa Di aka "Mrs Bigun" said...

crimeny!!! that word "osts" should be "posts"

stronger said...

Do kids inherently know how to build forts? I'm with you. The dining area may stay as a permanent fort- because I'm tired of moving the towels, blance balls, stools, large pieces of cardboard, etc back into place.

greyhound said...

awww. poor chopper. He just needs a good lawyer who can respectfully and professionally plead his case without resort to whining and back talk.

And maybe to file a petition for writ of habeas corpus to force his sister to release him at the end of his sentence.

Bigun said...

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triguyjt said...

bless you for allowing tac to take off...its a sign of a strong relationship...

i am with you on all the waste....amazing how much we throw away...how little we conserve...

i think more and more however are getting into the eco challenge.
thats great.
I mean, i used to throw away cardboard..now i put it together and get it ready for recycle...
and driving habits..i really think the almost 4 bucks is makiing everyone think twice.....

Wes said...

I wonder what the reverse side of economy would be? Would the prices go down? Wages? People don't use as much, what would we do with the extra? Job loss? It gives food for thought! I'm not debating the efficacy of conservation. I think we Americans, as a people, can shed a few pounds. I just ponder stuff like this when I'm riding my bike for three hours :-)

Chopper is probably a better man for being "forgotten" :-) At least he got some practice making planes!!

IronTriTim said...

Another enjoyable post thank you trimama. So on this boys are worse than girls? Any thoughts on twin girls?